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Do NOT Follow Your Heart

“Follow your heart.”

“Trust your feelings.”

“If you feel it, then it must be true.”

What do you think about the truth of these statements? I mean, these are sentiments we are taught growing up. These are things we feel are true (there’s a little fallacy there for you logic buffs).

God gave us our feelings, our emotions, our heart. They’re not bad, are they?

I was a little blown away by something I read this morning in 1 John – one of the great “love” books in the Bible.

In 1 John, John is telling us that the world will know us by our love. The way we love each other and the lost is our greatest witness to the world.

But in chapter 3, he tells us how we can know we are saved. How we can be assured our lives have been changed by the gospel. The answer is still love… but it’s interesting that there even has to be a question.

And here’s the real killer. In verse 19, he says

By this we shall know that we are of the truth and reassure our heart before him; (1 John 3:19, ESV)

“Reassure our heart”….Y’all…


Eve’s gut lied to her in the garden when she trusted the serpent. Once we are saved, our heart continues to doubt our salvation. You’re really not a believer. Look at you! 

But when we see our love, our fruit, we reassure our hearts with the evidence of our faith.

Does it surprise you that we have to do this? I know that my heart is a liar, and yet this truth blew me away.

The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it? (Jeremiah 17:9, KJV)

He goes on in chapter 3:

for whenever our heart condemns us, God is greater than our heart, and he knows everything. Beloved, if our heart does not condemn us, we have confidence before God;  (vv. 20-21)

Our Father sees us through His son, Christ. He knows our heart through that filter. And when we fight down the lie about our heart, we are confident to do the work that God has called us to. Otherwise, our heart is so busy tearing us down that we are incapacitated!

Don’t let the lies win!

Action item: If you’re having trouble believing this truth, get with another believer and identify the lies you’re believing that are not Biblical. Memorize scripture that fight those lies, and pray for each other.


Memorizing Scripture via Your Children

Memorizing Scripture is one of the most vital ways to enliven your spiritual life. If you have God’s word stored in your mind, the truth has more chance of consuming your thoughts than the wisdom of the world.

When I was in college, I learned some very practical, amazing tips for meditating on and memorizing God’s word. It rocked my world, to be honest. That was the first time I was able to memorize Scripture with any “stickiness” in my brain. It was a time of richness in God’s word.

I’ve tried to go back to those disciplines, and I haven’t done very well. It has nothing to do with the methods – they are still the most rock star Scripture memorization techniques I’ve seen. And they hardly take any time. But a lack of discipline (ahem, laziness) is a lack of discipline.

Enter a new spiritual growth method: Using your children. Ha!

We want our children to grow in the Lord and practice spiritual disciplines, don’t we? If we build in time with our kids to help them grow in their faith, it will also strengthen our own.

It was really my husband Brad’s idea to start teaching Samuel Bible verses. It was a genius idea! That little sponge can learn “Moves like Jagger” lyrics, why not the Bible? So what if he’s only 2!? It begins now.

So, often, at dinnertime, we will go over his memory verses. Occasionally, he can say entire verses on his own, and for the others we give him prompts to help him continue. I think this little guy is up to at least 6 verses already, and he’s always asking for new ones.

Do you know what that means? I have to know them, too! And I get to practice them often! And it’s amazing to watch him enjoy it, too!

So, yes, currently, I’m using my son’s memory verses to commit my own Scripture to memory. And I feel brilliant for doing so.

In what other ways could I take advantage of his learning to aid my own? Give me some ideas in the comments.

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